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It may be a life-long dream, or an idea you’ve finally embraced after years of being single — whatever your situation — I bet somewhere in the depths of your mind you have a nagging, desperate feeling that marriage is never going to happen for you.
I know exactly how you feel.
I was single into my early 50’s — and an expert on being needy and desperate — but I changed all that. I’ve been married to the love of my life now for 15 years and I can help you do the same.
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by Virginia Clark
on February 18, 2026
If you don’t know who you are, you’re in danger of becoming what a man wants you to be. This was one of the biggest challenges I had to meet before I could find true love.
It’s really about knowing your value as a woman. It’s about being aware of what you bring to the table in a relationship and, more importantly, in a marriage. I’m not talking about material possessions; I’m referring to the personal qualities uniquely yours that you share with your partner.
This might seem obvious, but it’s something I see many women overlook in their relationships. I know I did. I spent more time analyzing the men in my life than I did looking at myself. I scrutinized their behavior so I could figure out what they wanted from me. I did it all to get love. I wanted desperately to please them and to be the kind of girlfriend they would never leave. This behavior kept me single for many years.
I changed who I was with men so many times that I no longer knew myself. Other than my physical attributes, I had no real idea why a man should be going out with me. My self-awareness was pretty non-existent. And as Dr. Phil says, “you can’t change what you don’t acknowledge.”
It took me a long time before I [continue reading…]
by Virginia Clark
on February 12, 2026
Valentine’s Day is just around the corner. If you’re single you may anticipating the day with a sense of dread, fear or sadness. I’ve been there and I didn’t like it. It’s a shame that everywhere you look are reminders of romance and the love you think you’re missing. But there’s a way to seize the day and make it yours!
Here are 5 tips to make Valentine’s Day a good day this year:
- Have a girls night: invite your single friends for a pajama party, watch movies (I suggest “The Heat” with Sandra Bullock), do face masks, eat fun food and enjoy each other’s company.
- Move Your Body: Movement gets your endorphins going which will raise your mood. Movement also gets you out of your head, which is full of those pesky negative thoughts, and into your body. Physical activity is also a great tension reliever. Dance, do yoga, find a new place to walk the dog, lift weights, rearrange the furniture, clean.
- Create Something: This is a great way to distract your mind and in the end have something to show for it. Cook a new recipe, make a vision board or paint a picture. When you’re absorbed in the creative process hours pass by without you noticing.
- Give back: Make a plan to volunteer somewhere that needs your help. Visit a nursing home and give out flowers. Go to a hospital and read to a child. Find a shelter and walk a dog. That way you can move your body and give back.
- If none of these feels right — Ignore it: Make it your day! Make it special by doing only what you want. Get up when you want, go where you want, eat what you want, go to bed when you want. Savor it! Bury yourself in a book, rent videos and have fun at home. Take a bath, have food delivered and take a break from the outside world. Unplug and enjoy the quiet. Take control of the day and make it yours.
Valentine’s Day, like every other day, is only 24 hours long. That’s not a long time to get through when you think about it. So this year, make your plans ahead of time and you’ll be making Valentine’s Day a good day.
To see my TV interview, “Surviving Valentines Day When You’re Single,” you can watch the interview here.
by Virginia Clark
on December 13, 2025
It’s common knowledge that kindness, honesty and respect are necessary ingredients for a good relationship. However, there are three other qualities that are often overlooked and are just as important. They can save your relationship.
If you master these three qualities you’re relationships will have a much better chance of lasting a lifetime.
1. Open-mindedness. The definition: “Willing to consider new ideas; unprejudiced.”
No matter how many relationships you’ve had, it’s always an adjustment to deal with a man who has different interests and opinions than you.
You will find yourself thinking, “I can’t believe he thinks this is a good way to spend his time,” or “Why does he always react that way, it makes no sense.”
It’s difficult to accept or respect someone else’s point of view, especially when to you it just seems wrong. We think he [continue reading…]
by Virginia Clark
on September 17, 2025
Today I thought it would be fun to share a section from my book, “It’s Never Too Late To Marry: How to Have the Man and The Marriage of Your Dreams.” Let it lead you to explore your first interactions with men, there may be a gold mine of information waiting for you to discover!
My First Kiss
Not all of your behaviors can be traced back to personal experience. You may find that as a child you learned how to interact with men through observation. As children we are very suggestible to the world around us and we pick up things that appeal to us without knowing why.
I uncovered this memory of my first real kiss when I was taking an inventory of my relationship history (discussed more in Chapter Two). I was surprised to see how early I began to sabotage my relationships with men.
My first big crush was on a red headed boy in my fourth grade class. He teased me incessantly and I responded by saying mean things to him, trying not to show him how much I really liked him. It was the first time I was aware that a boy could so strongly affect my behavior. My attention was drawn to him whenever he was around. I had never been kissed, and more than anything, I wanted him to kiss me, just like I had seen in the movies.
One recess he asked me to follow him down to the school basement. It was very exciting to sneak away from everyone to a forbidden area. When we got there, he asked me if he could kiss me. I couldn’t believe he actually asked me first, I could hardly contain myself. Looking back I see he was a gentleman in the making.
I was eager and flustered and managed to nod my head “yes.” I closed my eyes and tilted my head sideways [continue reading…]
