10 Reasons You’re Not Getting What You Want From Men

Are you a woman who’d rather stay quiet and go without, rather than ask a man for what you want? Sadly, you’re not alone.

Society raises women to think of other people first, so it’s no wonder we feel that our needs are not important.

If you don’t have the confidence to ask for what you want, doing so can seem as frightening or as painful as a root canal.

But if you don’t ask, how will you ever get what you need? It’s like hearing a constant “no.”

Any relationship, and especially marriage, requires the art of compromise. You have to express your needs if you’re going to create a life with someone. It’s the only way to take a relationship from “just dating” to “happily ever after”.

Don’t despair—you just have to learn what works. Once you do, you’ll actually enjoy expressing your wants and needs.

Here are 10 reasons you’re not getting what you want:

1. You’re not clear.

Before you ask a man for anything, be crystal clear about what you want. Express your need in a simple sentence; don’t make it complicated by over-explaining. If you’re straight forward, it will appeal to a man’s more logical mind and he’ll get a clear picture of what you’re asking for.

2. You don’t know why you want it.

If you don’t know why you want what you want, you won’t make a good argument for your case. You have to give him clear and concise reasons so it makes sense to his (once again) logical mind.

3. You’re indirect and wishy-washy.

Don’t beat around the bush. It’s okay to  Continue Reading>>>