Are You in First Date Hell? Dating Advice to Make it Heaven

When you’re going on a first date, it’s always best to look on the bright side and have a positive attitude. Let’s face it, it’s nerve-racking and stressful dealing with the pressure of meeting a man for a first date, especially if you’ve met him online.  You really don’t know what to expect when you meet in person, and either does he.

Of course you’re going to be concerned with making a good impression, but if you can maintain an attitude of expecting the best, it will make a big difference on how the date turns out.

Wanting to impress a man can distract you from what’s most important and what you need to be paying attention to. Your main concern should not be if he’s going to like you or not, it’s how you’re going to feel about him.

My best dating advice is to start out with the right attitude, you will be much more likely to have a good dating experience.

M0st men are willing and ready to fulfill your expectations. If you set them too low, he’ll most likely meet them. If you allow him to get away with poor behavior, like treating you badly by being rude or inappropriate, you will only get more of it.

My dating advice: Hold him to a higher standard and he’ll meet it!

You will meet men who just don’t care about how they’re coming off, it’s unavoidable. But bottom line a good man will want to please and impress you, especially if he’s interested in seeing you again. He will look for signs of what you need and want and try to provide those things for you.

Your attitude going into the dating experience will make all the difference. First impressions are made in the first 3 seconds. The look on your face will telegraph to him what you’re thinking as soon as you meet.

So even if you’re disappointed at first glance, strive to feel positive so you can give the date a chance. Even is he doesn’t turn out to be a man you’d see again, at least the time you spend with him will be easier, and as you bring out the best in him. That will bring out the best in you.

My dating advice is to always keep the idea in mind to practice, practice, practice. Like anything, the more you practice the more confidence you build in your ability to handle any dating situation that arises.