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It may be a life-long dream, or an idea you’ve finally embraced after years of being single — whatever your situation — I bet somewhere in the depths of your mind you have a nagging, desperate feeling that marriage is never going to happen for you.
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by Virginia Clark
on September 1, 2015
I get excited when someone expresses truth in a powerful way. That’s why I’m sharing with you what Jeff Brown expresses so beautifully.
It reminded me of the many breakups I went through when I thought I needed to know the reason, “why?” I felt that only through understanding what went wrong could my broken heart and shattered ego be healed.
This is an excerpt from his book “An Uncommon Bond.”
“Sometimes people walk away from love because it is so beautiful that it terrifies them. Sometimes they leave because the connection shines a bright light on their dark places and they are not ready to work them through. Sometimes they run away because they are not developmentally prepared to merge with another—they have more individuation work to do first. Sometimes they take off because love is not a priority in their lives —they have another path and purpose to walk first. Sometimes they end it because they prefer a relationship that is more practical than conscious, one that does not threaten the ways that they organize reality. Because so many of us carry shame, we have a tendency to personalize love’s leavings, triggered by the rejection and feelings of abandonment. But this is not always true. Sometimes it has nothing to do with us. Sometimes the one who leaves is just not ready to hold it safe. Sometimes they know something we don’t—they know their limits at that moment in time. Real love is no easy path: Readiness is everything. May we grieve loss without personalizing it. May we learn to love ourselves in the absence of the lover.”
by Virginia Clark
on July 30, 2015
It’s common knowledge that kindness, honesty and respect are necessary ingredients for a good relationship. However, there are three other qualities that are often overlooked and are just as important. They can save your relationship.
If you master these three qualities you’re relationships will have a much better chance of lasting a lifetime.
1. Open-mindedness. The definition: “Willing to consider new ideas; unprejudiced.”
No matter how many relationships you’ve had, it’s always an adjustment to deal with a man who has different interests and opinions than you.
You will find yourself thinking, “I can’t believe he thinks this is a good way to spend his time,” or “Why does he always react that way, it makes no sense.”
It’s difficult to accept or respect someone else’s point of view, especially when to you it just seems wrong. We think he [continue reading…]
by Virginia Clark
on July 6, 2015
In past relationships, when I wasn’t getting what I want from a man, I often couldn’t recognize myself. I’d become another woman, a lesser one, to accommodate what I thought my man was looking for.
Not only that, I put up with behaviors from a man I never dreamed I’d ever tolerate. At some time or other, we’ve all done this for love.
I recently worked with Joan. She’s 45 years old, once divorced and self-employed. She wanted me to help her get the man she’d been dating for 5 years to finally commit to marry her.
She was adamant that I understand how his life has been difficult all these years and for that reason he had been unable to make a commitment to her. He’s had problems keeping his construction business afloat and has to cater to a demanding “manic-depressive” ex-wife. He’s also upset and angry because his grown children seem distant and aloof.
She was crystal clear about what was going on his life, but [continue reading…]
by Virginia Clark
on May 7, 2015
If you want a great relationship you have to be bold. True love isn’t timid, it’s wonderfully challenging. To be ready for love you can’t be too comfortable and set in your ways.
Here’s an analogy to help explain. Do you know which came first, the chicken or the egg? Does it matter? Not really, but you can learn something from this age-old question.
Imagine you’re the chick. You’re developing and growing larger inside the confines of your small egg. It’s getting more confining and crowded in there. It’s tight and polluted and you want OUT.
What do you do? There are two choices you can make. First, you hope and pray for a larger egg and wait to see what happens. Secondly, you decide to do something, to break out of the shell and face whatever awaits you on the other side.
Ponder a moment the difference between these two choices. Can you [continue reading…]
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