Are you a smart and caring single woman who is ready for lasting love?
Attract, Keep And Marry The
Love Of Your Life!
It may be a life-long dream, or an idea you’ve finally embraced after years of being single — whatever your situation — I bet somewhere in the depths of your mind you have a nagging, desperate feeling that marriage is never going to happen for you.
I know exactly how you feel.
I was single into my early 50’s — and an expert on being needy and desperate — but I changed all that. I’ve been married to the love of my life now for 15 years and I can help you do the same.
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by Virginia Clark
on April 30, 2015
Don’t let the woman he fell in love with fade away.
I think there’s something to be said for holding a percentage of yourself back; for keeping a part of yourself “single” after marriage.
Of course pouring yourself into your marriage is beneficial to the relationship, but if that pouring in occurs ALL the time, it will smother your love (and leave you depleted). The temptation to act like a “helicopter wife” is strong; but, too much of anything is, well, too much.
You must find a balance by holding back some of yourself. Fulfillment is found walking the line between devotion to your marriage and devotion to yourself.
Here are 5 reasons to keep a part of you “single” after marriage:
1. You ruin the give and take. If you focus your energy only on what you’re giving in your marriage, your husband won’t have room to give you anything back. He’ll be so busy receiving that he’ll forget to reciprocate. He’ll become lazy or neglectful and you’ll start to resent him. Marriage is a beautiful give and take. Stay open to receiving—from your spouse and from the world around you.
2. You lose your sense of mystery. The longer you’re married, the more Continue>>>
by Virginia Clark
on March 27, 2015
Use Your Heart To See On A Date
“It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye.” ~Antoine de St Exupery, The Little Prince
And so it is with dating. It’s easy to judge a man the moment you meet him and make a snap decision of his worth. First impressions are important, but they aren’t the whole story. You must get beyond your first impression of the man in front of you.
If you pay too much attention to what you’re seeing and thinking you’ll miss a lot. It’s a dating mistake we all make. But if you focus on your feelings (your heart) it will give you much more accurate information than your eyes ever will.
If you’re not initially thrilled with what you see, don’t just shut down. You may miss out on a wonderful human being. I almost did myself. When I met my husband my first reaction was disappointment. I couldn’t get past how he looked. At that time he had [continue reading…]
by Virginia Clark
on January 28, 2015
Don’t say “I Do” until you’re sure none of these apply to your guy …
You might think you’ve found the man you want to marry and now it’s just a matter of making it happen. Whether you have a specific man in mind, or if Mr. Right hasn’t shown up yet, I would like you to take into account the “3 A’s” before committing to marriage.
I learned the 3 A’s from a therapist friend of mine many years ago. I told her I didn’t want to marry just any man; I wanted to find a man of quality. She gave the 3 A’s to me as a warning of what to avoid in a husband. I thought I understood them and I believed I’d taken them to heart.
But even though I knew what they were, I found myself getting involved with men who embodied one of the three. Surprise, surprise, every one of those relationships was painful … and not a single one of them lasted.
No matter how secure you are in what you want, you can still be fooled. Despite your best intentions you can find yourself read more>>>
by Virginia Clark
on January 9, 2015
To attract true love, being your authentic self is a necessity. But it’s not easy. You want to be authentic but you end up becoming more the person you think you’re expected to be.
Subconsciously you may take on the qualities you think a man wants you to have. This can happen without you being aware, making it hard for you to recognize.
Or you may choose consciously to present yourself the way you think a man wants you to be. In either case, it’s not always easy to separate what you’ve adapted from what is truly organic to who you are.
If you neglect to be your authentic self it’s only a matter of time until your true self is revealed. I learned the hard way [continue reading…]
Release what’s been standing in the way of finding your special someone.
