Attract, Keep And Marry The
Love Of Your Life!

Lie to yourself all you want, it’s not hard to tell if he cares.

It’s a simple idea, right? Even an obvious one, but I admit … I just didn’t get it.

Christopher had strung me along for 2 years. I lived in LA and he was in San Francisco. We were an hour apart by air, or 6 hours by car, yet we’d only seen each other twice in that time. It seems crazy now, but back then, it made sense. Well, the truth is I made it make sense. I convinced myself that he was my soul mate and that all I needed was patience and he’d soon come around. There may have been some abandonment issues I was not facing in that scenario.

This is only one of the relationship mistakes I made: waiting for Christopher. I made a few more, all because I desperately wanted my search for love to be over already; I was tired of being single. In my need to make Christopher “the one”, I lost my common sense. I went into a state of denial and stayed there far too long.

Here’s how I created this painful situation for myself.

I let other people’s influence keep me hanging on.

I was desperate to be loved so, anytime my better judgment tried to get my attention I would shut it down. Rather than

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Hi ladies.

Usually I only post articles I’ve written, but not today. I’m going to share with you an article I found on Huffington Post that got over 345,000 shares on Facebook, so maybe you saw it?

I’m giving you the link because it’s one of the most truthful articles I’ve read on marriage and can be applied to any serious relationship you’re in.

With all the advice out there (including mine) this article stands out to me as a MUST READ!!!

“The 9 Most Overlooked Threats To Marriage”

ENJOY.

“Love in your mind produces love in your life. This is the meaning of Heaven.”
― Marianne Williamson, A Return to Love

It’s not easy to extend love when you’re not being loved in return. We can be selfish creatures, unwilling to love unless we know that love will come back to us.

So after a breakup, especially one we don’t want, it’s a challenge to stay in a loving place. It’s a choice we can make, but it goes against all our instincts.

It’s a natural reaction to want to strike back when a man withdraws his love from us. We want to lash out and inflict the pain we’re feeling back onto him. We will blame him and curse him. We’ll call him heartless, cold and immature. We do all this and more to defend ourselves from the pain of rejection.

We attempt to appease our feelings by attacking, believing we’ll at least feel better if we’re not alone in our misery. When they withdraw their love we react by doing the same to them. The old “tit for tat.”

The truth of this strategy is that it is the easy way out. All this does is take us away from love and make us miserable. We forget any good we had in the past and call everything

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