Attract, Keep And Marry The
Love Of Your Life!

Do you have a plan for Halloween? Have you decided to hide out at home, hoping no little monsters ring your bell so you can have all that candy just for you? Will you be waiting for the night to finally be over because you’re just not in the Halloween spirit?

I invite you to make a new plan for Halloween. This holiday is not just for kids and their parents anymore! Read what Bruce Horovitz of USA Today says:

“This adultification of Halloween is taking place in virtually every city in America. At bars. At restaurants. At movie theaters… adults have slowly been stealing Halloween from kids for years. Now it appears, grown-ups own the holiday.”

Halloween is a great opportunity for you to indulge yourself. It’s a time to play dress up and enjoy stretching yourself out of your comfort zone.I invite you to use this holiday as an excuse to walk on the wild side; get in touch with your secret self. This hidden part of you will create a sense of mystery that will draw men to you — and they won’t even know why.

We think we know who we are and these limiting ideas dictate how we show up in our relationships. But they’re “shadow” parts to your personality that we don’t express. If you don’t get familiar with those parts, you won’t be bringing your whole self into your relationships and you’ll attract a man with the same limitation.

For example, if you’re a woman who’s quiet, introverted and who hates parties; your shadow self is going to be [continue reading…]

Lake Atitlan, Guatemala

There are times when we all need a change of scene. Even when you’re in a relationship, it’s essential to leave your comfort zone together and have some new experiences out in the world.

When you’re faced with the unknown, a new place, a new culture or a change in your usual routine, it’s an opportunity to find out more about who you are,singly or as a couple. Many of us set up our lives subconsciously so that we feel in control. We shop at the same stores, drive or walk the same routes and do the same weekly activities.

Breaking out of our patterns is a way we can get to know ourselves on a deeper level. And having an adventure that isn’t predictable prepares us for the unpredictability of love. When we are challenged to show up in new ways, we can learn to trust ourselves and our ability to let in new things and handle them.

We all need to “take a break” from the ordinary so we can make room for the extraordinary. It is an essential part of self-care that will give you new ideas, a deeper understanding of yourself and a wider perspective of your life experience.

I’ll be doing that for the next two weeks by traveling to the beautiful Central American country of Guatemala. I’ve never been there and I don’t speak the language. And, yes, I do [continue reading…]

When looking for love, there’s no better training ground than having a best friend; it’s in a relationship with a best friend that we can learn about love and get the skills we need to be someone’s partner for life.

Women have argued with me that because they presently don’t have a boyfriend, they can’t work on their relationship skills. They feel they have to have a man in their life to practice on.

While having a man to work out our “stuff” with is helpful, it’s really best if we take care of it out BEFORE we get involved in a romance. But many of us believe that a relationship with a boyfriend is different than our other relationships and therefore we can’t do that. That’s not entirely true.

Let’s look at some common areas where we may need help before we meet The One. Many of us deal with the fear of abandonment, the inability to speak up for ourselves, or the tendency to give too much of ourselves in a relationship. If we “work” on these issues with our boyfriend or a man we’ve just started dating, they can be a barrier to love. And this will be multiplied if the man has many of his own problems to work out as well.

When we don’t do the work before we meet the guy, our relationships will have [continue reading…]