Attract, Keep And Marry The
Love Of Your Life!

I don’t want you to feel like a crazy person but have you noticed how you’re always talking to yourself? Even now, while you read these words your mind is chatting to you as you read. If you’re thinking of yourself listening to yourself, it can be a little crazy making. Our self-talk is active every waking moment.

Much of what we say to ourselves is made up of repetitive ideas that we’re not even aware we’re thinking. If a lot of it is negative, our thoughts will influence what we experience and give us the very opposite of what we desire.

If we don’t get wise to self-talk going on in the privacy of our minds, we’ll end up sabotaging our relationships, creating a lot of pain and misery. We can actually be telling our friends and family one thing but secretly in our mind be thinking the opposite.

There seems to be a “collective unconscious” of single women’s thoughts. Here are the 3 things I hear women telling themselves most often:

1. I will never find a man who’ll love me.
2. I’m not worthy of a great love.
3. I will die alone.

If these thoughts are all too familiar there’s a remedy. We have to [continue reading…]

Last week I set out to film a new video for my book “It’s Never Too Late To Marry.” My husband and I were going to set up at the back of the house around 7 AM before it got too hot — seeing how it’s summer in Phoenix.

He was behind the camera helping me focus. We did quite a few takes and it seemed to me that all was going well. I remembered what I wanted to say and thankfully no planes flew overhead to spoil the sound. When we finished the first round I went inside to look at the videos on my computer to see how I was doing.

I grabbed my cup of decaf and settled in to watch. I was not prepared for what I saw. Let me be honest here, seeing myself on screen, filmed in bright daylight was a shock. There was no hiding it, I’m not the 35 year old woman I imagine in my mind, I could see that I’m definitely 65. A healthy 65; but when did all these changes happen to my body?

You’d think that looking at myself in the mirror everyday would have prepared me for what I saw, but somehow when I’m telling myself “Hello beautiful” in the bathroom mirror every morning I don’t see what I’m seeing now. I figure it’s because watching yourself on computer puts you in a more objective position from which to observe.

Suddenly I’m embarrassed that my husband has seen this too. Then the thought of you my followers and clients seeing me this way makes me cringe. All I see are [continue reading…]

We’ve all been there, a phone clutched tightly in hand waiting for him to text, email or call. So afraid you might miss him, you carry the phone from room to room, from place to place.

You check your phone a hundred times while you refresh the mailbox again and again. You send an email to yourself just to make sure the mail program is working properly.

If your friend calls you don’t pick up. Instead of welcoming her call, you’re annoyed by the interruption and it reminds you how it hurts that it’s not him.

Afraid he may forget you, you decide to text him first, just to casually check in and say, “hi.” Your fingers hit the keys and type, but then you panic and stop yourself just in time.

As if all this isn’t enough to put yourself through, there are questions you keep asking in your head; “Does he like me?” “Did I do something wrong?” “Is he thinking of me?”

You hate yourself for feeling needy, for being unable to focus on anything else. Who is this person so consumed just waiting for his call? We’ve all been that person and it’s not fun.

So what can you do to stop this craziness and stop waiting for his call?

First of all, you have to stop pushing him away with your [continue reading…]