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by Virginia Clark
on January 25, 2013
There’s a myth perpetrated in TV and Film that says we can’t help who we fall in love with, that it just happens. Do you believe it? Have you ever said this to yourself about a relationship?
I’ve heard these words from new clients, especially the ones who are in relationships with inappropriate men.
They say, “I wasn’t looking for a relationship with… [a married man, a work alcoholic, or fill in the blank–] it just happened. I couldn’t help myself.”
Have you ever caught yourself trying to explain to a friend or family member that, “I just fell in love, I couldn’t help myself?” If this is you please know this is just an excuse you’re telling yourself. It’s not the truth.
I’ve learned this lesson the hard way, which I describe in my book, “It’s Never too Late to Marry.” I write about how I got involved with an alcoholic and the devastating effect it had on my life. I told myself I wasn’t looking for a man with problems, but when I met him I couldn’t help but fall in love with him, it just happened.
If you’re in a relationship where you’re putting up with bad behavior because “you love him and you just can’t help yourself,” I challenge you to look more closely at your true feelings. Are you really in love with an open heart or do you have to keep a piece of it protected? Do you trust this man to always act in your best interest? Real love can’t exist when there isn’t trust and respect and an inappropriate man can’t give you either.
So how do you keep yourself from letting love ‘just happen’ to you? It will [continue reading…]
by Virginia Clark
on January 4, 2013
Most of us have made the mistake of trying to define a relationship too soon. We find ourselves dating a man who finally ticks most of our boxes and we start to get excited. Life feels good and we’re floating down the street singing to ourselves. In the headiness of a new relationship insecurity and doubt are replaced by new-found confidence. We love ourselves again.
Things are going our way and life feels like a bowl of cherries. Every cliché about love seems right and you’re happier than you’ve been in a long, long time. You forget about dating advice you’ve gotten in the past. Now you feel like you just know this man, you understand him and, most importantly, he’s yours.
But watch out, this can be deceiving and you can fall into the “I need to know where this relationship is going!” trap.
The reality is that you don’t really know him yet. You’re in the honeymoon phase, wearing rosy glasses and you’re a little out of your mind. The heady feeling of this new romance empowers you. You’re a little full of yourself, almost cocky. Dating advice flies out of your head. You’re sure he’s crazy about you so it won’t hurt if you [continue reading…]
by Virginia Clark
on December 28, 2012
New Year’s Eve is one of those “couple centric holidays” that singles dread. The pressure of not having a date on New Year’s Eve can be even more daunting than not having one for Valentine’s Day.
Add to that the fear that how we end last year will have a bearing on how the New Year will unfold. It’s a superstition that’s hard to fight. If you have no one to kiss at midnight, it doesn’t bode well for your love life in the year ahead. It can leave you feeling totally discouraged and hopeless about finding love…ever.
It’s natural to feel depressed being dateless on the biggest “date night” of the year. You know there’s a fabulous party going on but you don’t know where and anyway, you’re not invited. You won’t have the opportunity to wear your favorite dress and heels. You won’t be dancing with a funny hat and blowing a noisemaker at midnight. You won’t be toasting with expensive champagne or looking deeply into a man’s eyes as you embrace and share a passionate kiss.
But you know what, you can have that experience next year if that’s what you want. But in the meantime [continue reading…]
by Virginia Clark
on December 22, 2012
Have you been a good girl this year? You may think so. You may believe you deserve Santa’s favor because you’ve been nice. But if you’ve been dating men that treat you badly or you’re presently in a relationship with one, you’ve been naughty.
If you’re not attracted to or dating nice guys, it means there’s a part of you that’s naughty in love — a part that creates drama and suffering in your life. I know that sounds harsh but in truth the men you get involved with will always be a reflection of you, after all you’re the one that chooses to be with them. If you’re not attracting the nice guys and keep getting stuck with bad boys time and again, it’s because at the subconscious level these men are a match to you. But that can change.
If you’re with a naughty man I bet the holidays for you are full of drama. You may feel anger and resentment that he’s not treating you with respect or paying enough attention to your needs. You already know that you’ll be getting a present that reflects a half-hearted effort on his part while you’ve put great attention into finding the perfect gift for him. You may find yourself complaining to friends and telling yourself that you deserve so much better in love!
If you’ve put up with a man’s bad behavior for the last year then it’s time for you to reassess the kind of woman you want to be. You’re half of the couple, and a naughty man [continue reading…]
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