Are you a smart and caring single woman who is ready for lasting love?
Attract, Keep And Marry The
Love Of Your Life!
It may be a life-long dream, or an idea you’ve finally embraced after years of being single — whatever your situation — I bet somewhere in the depths of your mind you have a nagging, desperate feeling that marriage is never going to happen for you.
I know exactly how you feel.
I was single into my early 50’s — and an expert on being needy and desperate — but I changed all that. I’ve been married to the love of my life now for 15 years and I can help you do the same.
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by Virginia Clark
on November 12, 2012
Hurricane Sandy has brought a lot pain and heartache to the East Coast. For the rest of us who are physically untouched by the storm, we can’t help but feel for the people who’ve lost their homes and their way of life.
Those of us who’ve remained unscathed can use this difficult and heart-wrenching experience as an opportunity to look at our lives. It’s a wake up call to ask ourselves if we’re making of life all that we can. Are we moving towards the love we want or away from it? Are we able to love more?
If you knew something was going to happen that would throw your life into chaos, would that change the decisions and choices you’re making around love?
If you consider that everyday you make hundreds of decisions that either enhance your life and bring you more love — or the opposite; how would you score yourself?
One of the 6 essential steps in my book It’s Never Too Late To Marry is “Take Yourself Seriously.” This might seem like an easy step, but it’s not. This was one of the biggest lessons I had to learn and unless life is challenging us with disaster, we sometimes just take our lives for granted.
Taking yourself seriously requires that we make ourselves and our well-being a priority. This requires looking honestly at how we’re living everyday and asking ourselves if we are just skating along and just let things just happen or are we taking actions to love more? It’s the difference between a life where you’ll have regrets or a life that [continue reading…]
by Virginia Clark
on October 29, 2012
“This adultification of Halloween is taking place in virtually every city in America. At bars. At restaurants. At movie theaters. Even at high-end gift shops. Like treats snatched from a trick-or-treat bag, adults have slowly been stealing Halloween from kids for years. Now it appears, grown-ups own the holiday.” Bruce Horovitz, USA Today
Do you have a plan for Halloween? Have you decided to hide out at home, hoping no little monsters ring your bell so you can have all that candy just for you? Will you be waiting for the night to finally be over because you’re just not in the Halloween spirit?
Well, I invite you to make a new plan for Halloween. This holiday is not just for kids and their parents anymore. Halloween is a great opportunity for you single ladies to indulge yourselves; a time to play dress up and enjoy stretching yourself out of your comfort zone.
I invite you to use this holiday as an excuse to walk on the wild side; to get in touch with your secret self. Read more >>>
by Virginia Clark
on October 23, 2012
How to let go of your emotional attachment and move forward after a breakup.
When you go through a divorce the marriage is dissolved in the eyes of the law but there’s no equally clear-cut separation where your heart is concerned. The same is true with a breakup; you now live separately or stop contact altogether.
You can remain psychically and emotional tied to your ex after a breakup and it has nothing to do with how he feels about you.
These “emotional cords” that connect you with him can get stronger through time if you refuse to let go and hang on to what might have been.
If you have obsessive thoughts about getting back with him or keep going over in your mind how he hurt you, you’ll be bound together by emotional cords you’ve created in your mind. It doesn’t matter that you’ve burned his photos or thrown away everything that reminds you of him; if he is still dominating your thoughts you’re still tied to him.
It will be impossible to move on unless you change the KIND of attachment you have with him for good.
So how can you have an attachment with your ex after a breakup that’s not so dis-empowering to you and painful?
Here’s a quick visualization that can help:
- Imagine that you are attached to your ex with colored cords. These cords can [continue reading…]
by Virginia Clark
on October 12, 2012
Good morning beautiful!
“For all eternity you will be with you. There is no escaping your Self.”
~ Jacob Glass
If there were ever a reason to make the effort to love and appreciate who you are, this would be it. Just imagine you’ll be keeping yourself company for all time — so you better find a way to enjoy who you are.
There are many benefits to loving yourself – one is having that love to give in a relationship. As they say, “You can’t give what you don’t have.”
When I was single I hated being told I had to learn to love myself if I wanted a man to love me. I was kind of hoping that a man’s love would make me love myself and give me the confidence I lacked.
I quickly learned that this was not the case. In fact, having a man’s affection made me actually feel the opposite. I suddenly felt insecure. The more they liked me the more I worried that I wasn’t good enough for them or that I was lacking in some way. It felt crazy; I couldn’t attract love, I couldn’t find a man that could make me feel good about myself. Even a man who others perceived as a “great catch” couldn’t do that for me.
Eventually I realized that there was no short cut to loving myself as I had hoped. It wasn’t going to come from someone outside of me. I had to bite the bullet and actually work at it.
So I started by making the effort to think, speak, and behave in ways that [continue reading…]
Release what’s been standing in the way of finding your special someone.
