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It may be a life-long dream, or an idea you’ve finally embraced after years of being single — whatever your situation — I bet somewhere in the depths of your mind you have a nagging, desperate feeling that marriage is never going to happen for you.
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by Virginia Clark
on October 7, 2012
I had the pleasure of meeting a truly inspiring man at a speaking event several years ago. His name is Ruben Gonzales, and he has competed in the winter Olympics three times. It was his childhood dream, although he was never an athlete in school and had never trained in any sport. Growing up he could think only of participating in the games, but he had no idea how. He collected anything that had to do with the Olympics and repeatedly visualized himself walking in the opening ceremony and running with the Olympic torch through the streets.
At the age of 21(!), he decided it was time to make his dream come true. Everyone thought he was crazy. He knew he had none of the athletic skills needed to compete and was already considered too old to start. He looked into all the various events available and came upon the luge. Ruben realized he could probably learn to lie back in a sled and speed down a hill at 80 miles an hour!
He was allowed to enter the competition, coached by one of the top luge trainers, only because he happened to be born in Argentina, a country that had never been represented in that sport. He went on to compete in three Olympic games, and was an amazing 38 yrs old in his last race. Ruben walked proudly in three opening ceremonies, was chosen to carry the torch through the streets, and was considered a perfect example of the true Olympic spirit. It had all come about just as he had visualized.
I share this story with you because there no better example of the power of visualization and what the subconscious mind can create. Visualization should be a technique you use for finding Mr. Right and creating [continue reading…]
by Virginia Clark
on October 1, 2012
No matter where you are on your journey to romance there is always a reason to get more love in your life. The magical thing about love is that it’s free; you can’t buy it, trade it or win it in a lottery. Love is an action you extend to others that benefits you more than it does them.
So why do so many of us resist what might help us get more love in our lives? You might not think you keep love at arms length but if you give yourself a reality check, you’ll probably find that you are. The ways we do this are subtle and many times subconscious. It takes asking yourself the hard questions and making changes that take you out of your comfort zone.
1. Do you find yourself being overly judgmental?
We may not be aware of how often we judge others harshly. Mother Teresa says, “If you judge other people you have no time to love them.” Our judgment blocks the free flow of feelings that connect us to each other. We end up giving that person a certain “place” and importance in our lives, limiting the possibilities of what could unfold.
In order to stop judging and love more we must first become aware that we are. Try to listen to the dialogue you’re having with yourself about how other people look or act. When you realize that you’re just telling yourself a story about them you can catch yourself.
We will never be able to completely stop judgment; it is part of our survival. But we can fight the tendency and learn to look at people with kinder eyes.
2. Do you express your love to others?
Some of us grew up with parents who never said, “I love you.” Some of us grew up with parents who [continue reading…]
by Virginia Clark
on September 21, 2012
Hi ladies.
I’m on a 12 day trip to the South (Georgia, No. and So. Carolina) to visit family. While I’m gone I’d like to share with you a post by my frined Joanne Deck. Enjoy!
How Well Do You Receive Praise?
Many years ago I managed a department of about 40 employees. The department had a major backlog when I was hired, and the company was hoping my fresh perspective and human resources experience would help eliminate it. It took the work of everyone in the department along with several others throughout the organization, a new understanding of the work process, and about 15 months to get caught up – but we did it!
To celebrate, the team leaders and I held a party which included food (of course!) and a gift and personal recognition for each member of the department. It was a private event held offsite during which each person was asked to come forward to receive his or her gift. All but one person happily came to the front to receive their accolades and treasure. One woman, a particularly strong performer who had been with us for many years, refused to come up. After several minutes of coaxing by the entire team, she finally, painfully came forward.
If I had it to do over again, I would handle it differently. While I don’t understand her refusal to be recognized, I learned that we cannot force people to receive. She eventually [continue reading…]
by Virginia Clark
on September 10, 2012
You can misread a man’s intentions and character when you date for a short time. Even the most savvy women can fall for what I call a “runaway man” and not realize it until it’s too late.
As much as you would like to believe in love at first sight and believe that the great chemistry you feel with a new man is lasting — the truth is that when you date it takes time to truly know someone.
My client Debbie just had this experience, “He was so into me and then he just disappeared! I thought I’d finally met the perfect man. What did I do wrong?”
Her experience is not unique, I had my own heartbreaking experience with a runaway man. A runaway man has a particular pattern of behavior. He draws you in by telling you he feels a powerful connection; that he has never felt anything like it before. He can’t believe his luck in finding you. He starts to drop hints about the future and you begin to imagine yourself already married to him.
He pursues you and flatters you and everything is just the way you imagined it would be. When you date it feels so right you get intimate earlier than you planed. He’s convinced you that he cares; he’s done everything right.
But then out of the blue when it’s time to see him again, he [continue reading…]
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