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Love Of Your Life!

It may be a life-long dream, or an idea you’ve finally embraced after years of being single — whatever your situation — I bet somewhere in the depths of your mind you have a nagging, desperate feeling that marriage is never going to happen for you.

I know exactly how you feel.

I was single into my early 50’s — and an expert on being needy and desperate — but I changed all that. I’ve been married to the love of my life now for 15 years and I can help you do the same.

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From the Blog

How “Visioning” Can Lead You To Mr. Right

My friend Rita Hovakimian wrote this inspiring article in a recent newsletter. She shares this powerful tool you can use to help you get insight on your romantic life and to help you identify your Mr. Right.

Let me know how it works for you!

Visioning: A Doorway to a Life of Fulfillment

Those of you who have been reading my articles for a while know that I am a strong believer in setting goals and visualizing them. From my own experience, using the practical tool of goal setting and practicing the elegant technique of visualization can help us expand and grow in our business and our life.

Most of us are quite familiar with goal setting, which involves making a list of outcomes we want to accomplish in the future in a linear and focused way, resulting in measurable and specific outcomes. We outline the steps to reach our goal within a time frame and take action. This is a powerful tool that stresses “doing” when we know what we want to accomplish.

Visualization is a technique for creating in our thoughts the mental equivalent of “what” we want to happen, as if it were already so. Law of Attraction specialists promote the use of visualization, because they know that by placing ourselves in the sensory and emotional experience of our goal, we are [continue reading…]

Relationship Advice: How Soon Do You Want Your Mr. Right?

relationship advice how soon do you want mr. right?Spring is just around the corner and it’s the best time to re-evaluate and plant the seeds for what you want to grow in your life. So, are you sowing the seeds for the love you desire?

When I was in my mid 30’s to early 40’s I stubbornly refused to get relationship advice for the disaster that was my love life. Even though I was profoundly unhappy I thought I could find my way to love on my own, after all I was reading books, going to seminars. I talked endlessly to my friends, asking them for relationship advice, going into detail about my problems. They always took my side, not wanting to hurt me, and their words would make me feel better for a few hours, but never helped me change my desperate situation.

What I didn’t realize was how fast time flies by, and before I knew it I was 45 yrs. old and still single and without a man to love.

What finally helped me change my life so completely was going Hypnotherapy School and becoming a client of one of the top therapists there. Candace Brown gave me the honest and objective eye I needed to finally see the habitual [continue reading…]

Love After Loss: Writing The Rest of Your Story

love after loss, relationship adviceBy Ellen Gerst

Writing the rest of your story … what does that involve and how do you start?

Let’s imagine that your life up to now has been a movie, aptly named “The Story of My Life, Part I.” You held the starring role, surrounded yourself with a wonderful and loving cast of supporting actors, and, to top it off, you and your co-star were deeply in love. When this movie was over and “The End” scrawled across the screen, naturally, you were very sad, disappointed and unsatisfied. Perhaps you wanted to stand up and shout, “This is NOT the way it was supposed to end. I signed on for a role in happily ever after, and I got stuck playing a role I didn’t and still don’t want.

Well, the “movie studio” does not have the power to remake this film. However, there are always sequels in which wrongs can be righted and happy endings may be found. You decide to audition for “The Story of My Life, Part II.” And to make sure things go your way this time, you decide to be a triple threat. You will be the star, the director and the producer! This movie will begin at your current age and status and, perhaps, have a quick flashback so that the audience can see how you arrived in this place.

The producer may be the “money-man” behind the scenes, but [continue reading…]

6 Healthy Ways To Re-Activate Your Love Life

Jump Starting Your Love Life

Are your bad habits holding you back from having a great love life?

Let’s face it, we all have habits we know we should to change, whether watching too much TV, shopping for what we don’t need or eating too much. We have things we do that we wish we didn’t or things we don’t do that we wish we did. All these distract you from taking the steps you need to change your stagnant love life.

Your habitual behaviors chip away at your self-esteem and can feel like a weight you carry through life. They can be particularly detrimental to your love life. Sometimes these habits can grow into addictions that need professional intervention, but mostly, you’ve just let yourself get comfortable being a certain way and you feel a lack of motivation to change.

What makes these habits hang on so tenaciously?

They act as distractions, helping you keep to the status quo in your love life by holding you in your comfort zone. They help you suppress and avoid your unpleasant emotions, and they become a substitute for comfort and gratification.

You can tell yourself you want to find the right man or improve the relationship you’re in but your habits keep you from [continue reading…]