Attract, Keep And Marry The
Love Of Your Life!

When you are involved with a married man or any man with another woman in his life, you can’t help but feel a little crazed. It takes a good deal of self-awareness and inner strength to keep yourself balanced and centered when dealing with this kind of uncertainty.

I’ve said many times they’re no rules that apply to everyone. If we are too black and white in our thinking, too judgmental without compassion, we are doing ourselves a disservice. Life can be messy, but that’s no excuse to not clean it up. If you’re involved with a married man who “belongs to another” you need to do some real soul-searching. Why you are involved with a married man and what is the cost to yourself, to him and to his family.

There are examples where it seems (we can truly never know what goes on in another’s relationship) that two married people have found their true love outside of their marriage and have happily moved on. One example is Steven Spielberg, [continue reading…]

Unavailable men can be your biggest nightmare. But I’m not going to “bash” unavailable men or blame them for all the trail of heartbreak they leave behind them. If you look below the surface of these men,  you just might find a family history that’s caused him to shut down his emotions and avoid getting close to a woman.

We’re all just human and our life experience is a big determiner of how we view the world. Two major factors that make you you, are your biology and your environment. Now some people are just born with brains that are different, but most of us are shaped by our histories. If you’re dealing with an unavailable man; most likely under that seemingly callus skin there is vulnerable and wounded person.

I’m not advocating that you get involved with one of these men, what I want to promote is a compassion and some understanding that these men aren’t against you…they are fighting themselves.

There are different degrees of unavailable men. Some can actually be helped if they meet the right woman and if they’re motivated to change. What you need to have is the ability to recognize who is worth you time and who will just lead you into misery and pain.

Unavailable men are people too

If you’ve been involved with unavailable men you might have a better chance at discerning who the tough cases are. If you’ve learn from you mistakes in the past you will be able to figure out if a particular man is worth you [continue reading…]

How to be a more feminine woman — you’ll find your answer in Thailand. While on vacation there last spring I couldn’t help but notice the true femininity of the women there.

It’s a country where respect and equality exist between the sexes. You see many Thai women in leadership positions working alongside men as equals (a woman was just elected president). Yet the women there have managed to keep their feminine allure and radiate a special beauty all their own.

Thai women have a strong presence that has nothing to do with being showy or vain. In fact, they are modest in their dress and the only women who show off their bodies with low cut tops and short skirts are the “ladies of the night.” They are easy to spot and there is little question what they do.

It’s not clothes that make Thai women so beautiful…it’s how they feel about themselves. It goes back to their traditions, most noticeable when they do their traditional dance. I was privileged to attend one of these dances and I was mesmerized. I was in awe of the [continue reading…]