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by Virginia Clark
on January 18, 2012
We can all use some improvement when it comes to judging. We either judge people too fast based on little evidence or we harshly judge what’s happening in our lives and fail to see the good that’s there. Here’s a good reminder, don’t judge too quickly…
Don’t Judge a Life by One Difficult Season
There was a man who had four sons.
He wanted his sons to learn to not judge things too quickly. So he sent them each on a quest, in turn, to go and look at a pear tree that was a great distance away.
The first son went in the winter, the second in the spring, the third in summer, and the youngest son in the fall. When they had all gone and come back, he called them together to describe what they had seen.
The first son said that the tree was ugly, bent, and twisted. The second son said no–it was covered with green buds and full of promise. The third son disagreed, he said it was laden with blossoms that smelled so sweet and looked so beautiful, it was the most graceful thing he had ever seen. The last son disagreed with all of them; he said it was ripe and drooping with fruit, full of life and fulfillment.
The man then explained to his sons that they were all right, because they had each seen but one season in the tree’s life. He told them that you cannot judge [continue reading…]
by Virginia Clark
on January 16, 2012
I’m surrounded by women who’re going through or have just gone through a break up. Breaking up with someone at least once in your life is inevitable. There’s nothing that hurts the heart in quite the same way as losing a man and the dreams you held for him. I’ve been through more than my share but as I went along it did get easier.
Healing from heartbreak takes time, but it also forces you to dig deep into yourself so you can heal. You need to call on your inner strength, even if at this time when you might feel you have none.
We all have the ability to “overcome” breaking up with someone. There’s something special within you, an inner spirit that has helped you get over your obstacles in the past — and will be there for you in the future.
You might feel that somehow you just can’t make it through this break up, but the
strength is within you. It has always been there but [continue reading…]
by Virginia Clark
on January 13, 2012
I saw this on facebook and thought it was very clever. It strikes a cord because it’s all about honesty in relationships.
It can be tempting when you’re just getting to know a man to either stretch the truth or lie by omission to make yourself look good. You tell little white lies that you think will protect you from being judged.
I had a client who was dating a man for 3 months. They really fell for each other and things had gotten serious. They decided they could see the potential of a future together and decided to be exclusive. Suddenly, out of the blue my client was fired from her job and was extremely embarrassed. She had been late too often and the company had finally had enough.
Three weeks after being fired she told me that she was waiting to tell her boyfriend what happened until she got another job. But she asked me should I tell him the truth?
I asked her how it felt to keep this secret from him for so many weeks. She said [continue reading…]
by Virginia Clark
on January 12, 2012
Soulmate or stalemate? Are you clinging to a relationship that’s causing you pain because you’ve convinced yourself that you’ve have found your soulmate? Do you believe that it’s just a matter of time until he “wakes up” and realizes you’re the perfect woman for him?
Well, I can tell you from experience if just one of you thinks you’re soulmates you’re most likely not. You’ve gotten caught in the soulmate or stalemate trap. I’ve been there and I know how hard it is to set yourself free.
I knew the man I was with was my soulmate; the only problem was that he didn’t know it yet. So I had to convince him.
It turns out that I sort of had to convince myself as well. I went to a psychic to confirm what I hoped was true. She told me not to worry, to be patient, she promised me he would come around and realize how much he loved me.
I waited and trusted the psychic’s words. Even when an ex-girlfriend from his past came back into life and wanted to date him again, I wasn’t swayed. I just knew [continue reading…]