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It may be a life-long dream, or an idea you’ve finally embraced after years of being single — whatever your situation — I bet somewhere in the depths of your mind you have a nagging, desperate feeling that marriage is never going to happen for you.
I know exactly how you feel.
I was single into my early 50’s — and an expert on being needy and desperate — but I changed all that. I’ve been married to the love of my life now for 15 years and I can help you do the same.
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by Virginia Clark
on November 14, 2011
We all share a basic need, the desire to be loved for our true self. But that can’t happen if you are your own worst critic and focus only your faults.
Do you believe you create your life experience? If you do, then you have to acknowledge that if you put yourself down, you will draw that experience to you. Instead of attracting love you will be attracting men who reflect back to you your beliefs about yourself.
You have to first learn how to be loving and kind to you. After all, everything in your life starts with you. If you don’t make yourself the most important priority for love, no one else will.
I learned this lesson the hard way years ago when I let a man treat me in way that was humiliating and disrespectful. I go into it in detail in my book, “It’s Never Too Late to Marry.” I call him Mr. Kinky. He lured me into a trap; seducing me into believing he loved me. But he didn’t love me at all; he controlled me and made me feel unworthy.
How could I let this happen? Because I had no idea what loving myself was like, therefore I couldn’t recognize that he wasn’t loving me.
It was only after he broke up with me (and at the time I begged him not to) [continue reading…]
by Virginia Clark
on November 11, 2011
This is the most common problem women present to me when they come for help — why do I always get involved with bad boys? Their stories are different but they all contain the same elements of disappointment and pain.
If you don’t what’s driving you into getting involved with bad boys you won’t be able to help yourself.
Bad boys have one thing in common: they will break your heart.
If you are attracted to and date bad boys it’s because you have a subconscious pattern that compels you pick this kind of man.
Some of them will hurt you on purpose, and some bad boys are just built that way. Actually, a bad boy can be as unconscious of his behavior patterns as you are of yours.
You have to get at your “subconscious programming” and find out what it is triggering your attraction to bad boys. Once you find that out, and become consciously aware of the inner thoughts and beliefs that have been running your romantic life, things will change.
Bad boys will no longer be on your radar and you’ll begin to see that good men are everywhere.
by Virginia Clark
on November 9, 2011
Are you sick and tired of worrying about getting married? Are you fed up with looking for love and always focusing on what you don’t have?
During my roller-coaster love life I reached a point where I literally got so bored with myself and my constant focus on men; I didn’t talk to any one for a week.
I got to the point of being sick and tired of being sick and tired of looking for love.
I stayed in my apartment and had a pity party for myself. I escaped my lonely reality by watching TV and eating lots of popcorn sprinkled with Parmesan cheese.
Love stories had always been my favorite genre of movies, but now I couldn’t stand the idea of watching anything that had to do with romance.
So instead, I got into watching re-runs of Colombo, Matlock and Murder She Wrote. It turned out mysteries were great “mind candy,” an easy way for me to escape what I perceived to be my miserable lonely life. Jessica Fletcher was single and happy. She never thought about men, she was [continue reading…]
by Virginia Clark
on November 7, 2011
I believe that if I’d been ready for a deep love and marriage in my 20’s I would have created it for myself. It took writing my book and reviewing my early years to really understand what was going on with me and how I was lying to myself much of the time.
It’s not a pretty thing to remember, and seriously, it’s a miracle that I ended up in such a great marriage to such a wonderful man. I know for a fact that miracles can happen in love if you make yourself ready for them.
I took lots of risks in my early days, both emotionally and physically, but back then it didn’t seem dangerous, it just seemed exciting.
If there was a “bad boy” in the room, I had to make him mine — my attraction to him would be so strong I had to have him! I didn’t even care if he was there with another woman, my need to connect with him overruled my common sense and I couldn’t stop myself from pursuing him.
It was like going after the cheese in a mousetrap, I was totally oblivious to what was going to happen to me once a took a nibble.
So I have to ask myself, what made my attraction to bad boys so strong and all consuming? I know now it was because we were a perfect match on one very fundamental level: we were both afraid to commit.
At the time I thought I was being completely open and available to love. Infact, when I compared myself to my women friends, I thought [continue reading…]
Release what’s been standing in the way of finding your special someone.
