Attract, Keep And Marry The
Love Of Your Life!

Are you in a serious, monogamous relationship with a man and longing to get him to commit to you? Do feel ready to get engaged or married and yet you’re still waiting for him to make a move to commit to your future together? If you’ve been with a man you love in an exclusive relationship for over a year, you’re in the perfect position to help him make decision to commit to you. However, many men have conscious and subconscious fears that make them feel ambivalent about committing to any woman.

It’s pretty much a given that a majority of men need some kind of “push” to get them to commit. Most women find themselves in this situation at some point in their relationships. But if you know what their true concerns are, you can put yourself in the position of calming their fears and showing them that their worries are unwarranted.

Here are 3 fears that might be holding him back:

1. He’s afraid you’re going to change him. This is when a man feels that you don’t really accept him as he is. He’s afraid that to please you he will have to change an essential part of himself. He doesn’t want to moldhimself to be someone he’s not. To reassure him you have to accept who he is and  show him that you have no intention of changing him.
2. He’s afraid you only love him for what he can do for you. This is a man’s [continue reading…]

Do you always date bad boys?  Are you longing to date a good man but the bad boys are the only men you seem to attract?

If you find yourself constantly attracting the bad boys, it’s because you’re attracted to them! I know they seem to be more exciting and interesting than good men, but if you are looking for marriage, they’re not a good bet.

Bad boys are hard to ignore, they tend to stand out in a crowd. They blind you to the good men around you. The good ones are there, but you have to learn how to look for them. You need to study how they act and how they treat women so you can recognize one when you see them. You have plenty of good men to observe in your life; they’re a family member, a fellow worker, or married to your friends.

Here’s something else you can do to find the good men. I bet you have a list of all the wonderful qualities you’re looking for in a husband. I imagine your list includes qualities such as honesty, kindness and loyalty. Well, every time you get involved with a bad boy it’s like you’re ignoring your list and compromising on what you really want in a man. It’s saying that your list doesn’t really matter.

If you want to meet a good man, you have to get back to your list and follow it! There are available good men everywhere, you just have to train yourself to recognize one when you see him. Don’t waste your precious time dating bad boys, save yourself for the good men.

If you want to get married, good men are the only way to go.

Should I Marry Him?

If you are not sure that the man you’re with is the man you should marry, here are some questions to ask yourself regarding your relationship.

When you consider them, be as honest as possible with yourself and seriously look at the dynamics that are going on between the two of you. If any of these questions raise a red flag don’t just let them slide by telling yourself that no one’s perfect. You’re being given a clue that there’s a problem between the two of you that needs to be looked at and addressed.

1. Does he try to change you?

If he perceives something in you as a major flaw that needs correcting and continually calls your attention to it; you can bet it’s going to bother him even more as time passes. You want to be loved for all of yourself, and although you have quirks like everyone else, if he’s constantly bringing up a personal defect and making you feel bad about yourself, he is not accepting you as you are. [continue reading…]