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It may be a life-long dream, or an idea you’ve finally embraced after years of being single — whatever your situation — I bet somewhere in the depths of your mind you have a nagging, desperate feeling that marriage is never going to happen for you.
I know exactly how you feel.
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by Virginia Clark
on August 11, 2011
Do you despair that you and your partner have hit an emotional wall? Has your relationship slipped into a routine that is unexciting and mundane? Have you gotten stuck in a dating pattern of “not doing” by staying in every night and just watching TV?
There’s nothing wrong with spending time at home and relaxing, in fact that quality of closeness and privacy will set the foundation for your relationship. But if you just “hang out” night after night it’s a good chance that over time your connection with each other will become just as casual and dull.
Relationships need some kind of variety to thrive and grow deeper. A great way to get to know your man more intimately is by sharing experiences with him that challenge you both to break out of your comfort zones. The problem with being comfortable is that it [continue reading…]
by Virginia Clark
on August 4, 2011
Breaking up is hard enough, but when there’s another woman involved it can be doubly painful. It doesn’t matter if she is drop dead beautiful or looks like moldy cheese; either way feels like someone stuck a knife in your back.
It’s particularly hard to overcome the heartbreak when another woman comes into the picture because you feel out of control. Any chance you might have had to work things out with him seems to vanish because he now has this new woman in his life.
Your shaken ego will desperately try to repair its hurt pride by urging you to find out why this happened — as if finding an explanation could make you feel better. You’ll scrutinize his feelings and begin to assume all kinds of reasons why he picked her over you. This will only end up you with you blaming yourself up for lacking something that she must have.
You need to let go of trying to figure out what happened and why. I know it’s easier said [continue reading…]
by Virginia Clark
on July 28, 2011
It’s not easy to spot a man who’s emotionally unavailable, especially if you’ve just started dating. But some unavailable men are easier to recognize, they have a built-in warning that you can either pay attention to or chose to ignore. These men are married or already in a relationship — from the start you know that you are going to be sharing them with someone else.
If you get involved with an openly unavailable man most likely you’ll be causing yourself a good deal of heartache and pain. You may hope that given time things will change and you will become their one-and-only, but that’s usually not the case. Instead you will find yourself dealing with a lot of drama because you’re unhappy and not getting your needs met. If you can avoid getting involved do so; these relationships are typically not easy to break away from.
The “practiced” unavailable man will at first sweep you off your feet. He will appear to be the very opposite of who he really is. These are the men you usually fall for quickly and hard.
Because he has likely been in and out of many relationships he knows how to seduce you; to tease you by giving just enough of himself to make you feel important. He will talk [continue reading…]
by Virginia Clark
on July 20, 2011
Your search for a man to marry isn’t just about the actions you take out in the world; it requires that you make sure your “two minds” are aligned and in agreement about what you want for your life.
Your first mind is the conscious mind, it takes care of your day-to-day existence. It’s logical and analytical and knows the logistics of what you need to do to find a man. It will give you practical strategies, like Internet dating or going to mixers.
Your other mind is the subconscious, it holds all your memories and the emotional associations that you’ve connected to them since you were an infant. For example, a phrase you heard when you were 5 years old, such as “She’s such a pain Jane” can give you a sense of not being pretty decades later. The adage, “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never harm me” isn’t true when you’re a child.
Unless your subconscious AGREES with your conscious mind’s desire to be married it will keep sabotaging all your efforts to find a man. If you don’t believe me look at a [continue reading…]
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