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by Virginia Clark
on July 11, 2011
I can’t begin to tell you how much money I’ve spent on beauty products over my lifetime. I started at 13 years old when I was finally allowed to wear make-up for the first time. I felt so grown-up and I became an avid consumer of what I saw in magazines and on TV. From then till now, the make-up I’ve bought, including mascaras, compacts of blush, pots of eye shadows, creams and tubes of lipsticks would most likely total into the thousands.
You were probably just like me, easily susceptible to the idea that a beauty product would make you suddenly sexy and beautiful. I remember the feeling I had when I bought some new product; the hope and expectation that it triggered in me. I believed that it would fulfill it’s “promise” and make me more beautiful and desirable.
But the men I wanted to attract didn’t seem to notice me any more than before. And when these products didn’t have the desired result, and did not change me overnight, I had to assume it was because I just wasn’t pretty enough.
Even now, after all this time, I am still susceptible to the advertising that sells beauty [continue reading…]
by Virginia Clark
on July 1, 2011
When you talk about your life, especially when you meet a new man, do you do you portray yourself as a victim? You might be quick to say no, but knowing how you come across to others is difficult. You can be so used to thinking a certain way that you are no longer aware of how you express yourself.
You may start off with a complaint about a little thing, like the traffic. But that can lead you to more complaints about other things; your work, your last boyfriend, or the state of the government. It can feel so familiar that you are unaware you’re doing it.
I saw this in action on my vacation when I met Rachel, a 39 year old Australian woman and Mimosa, her 10 year old daughter. They sat down at the table next to us at our hotel restaurant.
Rachel was very friendly and started talking to us right away. She told us about her
travels and it soon became a monologue on her part. She elaborated on every bad experience she had gone through during her month-long journey through Thailand. [continue reading…]
by Virginia Clark
on June 23, 2011
Do you obsess about past relationships? Do you look back and go over every detail? Do you go over in your mind everything you could have done differently? Are you trying to find some kind of closure so you can be at peace?
What is more painful than constantly re-living such painful memories?
It’s a tough place to be. I remember how at one time in my younger days, I was so devastated by a break-up I thought about it obsessively for 3 years!
During that time I didn’t date or pursue any other relationships, I just constantly went over the mistakes I thought I had made in my mind and berated myself for having been so clueless.
My inner dialogue would be full of regrets. “If only I hadn’t bought him that expensive leather jacket, it was too much to give him so early.”
“If only I hadn’t asked so many questions about his past, he probably thought I was being too noisy.”
“If only I hadn’t complained about the mess in his apartment, I probably sounded like his mother and hurt his feelings”
Why do we do this to ourselves?
It feels like these obsessive thoughts help you stay connected to him. If you keep thinking [continue reading…]
by Virginia Clark
on June 16, 2011
There won’t be a post this week as I’m away on vacation.
Please enjoy reading some of the older posts.
I’ll have a new post for you at the end of June.
Happy Summer!
Release what’s been standing in the way of finding your special someone.
