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It may be a life-long dream, or an idea you’ve finally embraced after years of being single — whatever your situation — I bet somewhere in the depths of your mind you have a nagging, desperate feeling that marriage is never going to happen for you.
I know exactly how you feel.
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by Virginia Clark
on February 10, 2023
5 Warning Signs Your Relationship Might Not Last
Relationships start with strong mutual attraction and the expectation of a future together. Hopes are high that we’ve found our Mr. Right and the feeling is intoxicating. But you may be wasting time in your relationship.
After a strong start it can be hard to recognize when things start to subtly change. The relationship feels different and you start to ask yourself, is this relationship going to last?
Here are some warning signs that you may be wasting your time:
1. You start to see inconsistencies in his behavior and experience occasions of lying and deceit.
Trust is the foundation of any relationship; without it love can’t mature and grow. If you accept excuses for lying and rationalize bad behavior you’re asking for more of the same and you’ll get it.
2. You feel like you’re putting in all the effort and he’s just going along with your plan.
We tell ourselves men don’t act the way we do in relationships so we let their lack of effort slide. But strong and loving relationships require that both partners participate fully. Each person has to take equal responsibility and commit totally to the growth of the relationship.
3. You feel clingy and insecure around him even though he says everything is OK.
We’re masters at ignoring our intuition, especially when it’s telling us something we don’t want to hear. We’ll believe what a man tells us is true while we ignore [continue reading…]
by Virginia Clark
on November 22, 2022
Dear Virginia,
I’m 39, never been married & I don’t have children. Up to this point I understand that I’ve picked men who are unsuitable & I have certainly learned what I don’t want. However, I’ve been dating a man for only a month, it’s been a long time since I’ve felt such an attraction to a man in all areas. How do I enjoy the courtship? Right now, all I’m doing is obsessing about how I get him to be exclusive with me. This is all after just one month? I just want this to work & I don’t understand why I’ve pinned all my hopes on something so new. Please help! Doris
I know exactly what Doris is talking about and I feel her pain. Hers is a common problem. It doesn’t matter your age or intelligence, we’re all susceptible to obsessing over a man and falling in love too fast.
Why do we get attached so quickly? We know we shouldn’t and it certainly doesn’t feel good. We end up feeling anxious, scared and out of control. It’s like our emotions are on a runaway train we can’t stop. Our authentic self, which is the loveable part of us, gets pushed aside and the more insecure parts of us take over.
Like Doris, we’re afraid [continue reading…]
by Virginia Clark
on September 11, 2022
If you’re getting more confused about the status of your love life as time passes, it’s a big red flag. But it’s not about him, it’s about YOU.
You’re probably asking yourself, “Have his feelings changed? Why is he doing that? What is he thinking? Does he still love me?”
All this thinking is so just so confusing right? You just can’t figure him out.
Well I have to tell you, and remind myself as well, confusion is a passive state of being; it’s a cop-out. Confusion is a big waste of time!
Why do we go there so easily? What keeps us confused when all we want is to be clear?
Well, let’s be truthful. It feels more comfortable to get advice from professionals and friends than to just ask him what’s going on. The idea of demanding an answer from a man is just too scary, especially if you have the intuition that you’re going not going to like what you hear.
Confusion is a way we give ourselves a pass at being decisive. We feel safer in a state of “not knowing.” We analyze a man’s behavior to avoid feeling powerless, but it does just the opposite. [continue reading…]
by Virginia Clark
on June 9, 2022
This behavior is not normal and it’s not OK. (You deserve so much better.)
Just like an alcoholic denies their drinking problem, people in emotionally abusive relationships often default to denial as well.
There’s a common thread that runs through every abusive relationship — fear.
An abuser of any kind is an expert at making you afraid in big and subtle ways. Here are classic, sinister ways your partner actively makes you a victim of emotional abuse:
- Destroying your self-esteem with constant put-downs
- Bullying you so you feel weak and helpless
- Insulting you so you think no one else would ever want you
- Controlling you by dictating what’s right or best for you
- Criticizes you so you no longer trust yourself
- Making you dependent by destroying your confidence
- Focusing only on your faults so you forget your value
- Creating a “you” against “them” dynamic, separating you from others
- Insisting his needs are the priority, so you ignore your own
- Keeping you guessing so you can never feel safe
When you recognize you’re with an emotional abuser, it’s not easy to free yourself from their tight grip. The relationship has most likely sapped your strength and weakened your will. Separating from your partner’s manipulative [continue reading…]
Release what’s been standing in the way of finding your special someone.
