Attract, Keep And Marry The
Love Of Your Life!

It is said that what’s important happens in the silence but as a woman you may find it hard to be comfortable with silence, especially on a date. But it’s not your fault, it’s actually biological!

In the book “The Female Mind,” Dr Luan Brizendine says that women devote more brain cells to talking than men, they devote more brainpower to small talk – and actually get a buzz out of hearing their own voices! And, if that wasn’t enough, the simple act of talking triggers a flood of brain chemicals which give women a rush similar to that felt by heroin addicts when they get a high.

So yes, it’s partly your biology that keeps you talking when it would be better to do more listening. But there may be other reasons why you are uncomfortable with silence on a date. [continue reading…]

I bet you’ve thought many times about the ideal traits you would like to have in the man you marry.

You may have a vivid picture of what he looks like or what you would like him to do for a living. If you don’t have a picture, you may have just have a feeling of how you want him to be and you don’t even care about the details.

It’s natural for you to have an idealized sense of the man you want to marry but sometimes you can forget that there are more important things to consider when deciding who you want to spend your life with.

You might think you’ve found the man you want to marry and now it’s just a matter of making it happen. But whether you have a specific man in mind or if Mr. Right hasn’t shown up yet, I would like you to take into account the “3 A’s.”

I learned the 3 A’s from a therapist friend of mine many years ago. At the time she told them to me I thought I understood them and I believed I had taken them to heart.

But even though I knew what they were, I still found myself getting involved in relationships [continue reading…]

It makes sense that if you exist so does your perfect partner.

If you don’t believe this maybe you’re making excuses for being single because you’ve become discouraged and you’ve lost hope over time.

When you give up on your dream of finding a good man it can be a form of self-sabotage. Let’s face it; it’s hard to keep believing in your dream of marriage when it’s taking longer than you had hoped. So you may find yourself making excuses as to why you just can’t find the right man.

One of the most common excuses I hear women make revolve around where they live.

Do any of these sound familiar?

“In Los Angeles there are no good men, they are all superficial and all they want is a beautiful woman on their arm” or “I live in such a small town, there’s no one here I can relate to or who has my interests” or “In New York City women out-number men so men have so many women to choose from, they don’t want to commit. [continue reading…]