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by Virginia Clark
on July 2, 2017
I came upon this poem and thought it very special, enjoy.
AFTER A WHILE
After a while, you learn the subtle difference
Between holding a hand and chaining a soul,
And you learn that love doesn’t mean leaning
And company doesn’t mean security,
And you begin to learn that kisses aren’t contracts
And presents aren’t promises,
And you begin to accept your defeats
With your head up and your eyes open,
With the grace of a woman, not the grief of a child,
And learn to build all your roads on today
Because tomorrow’s ground is too uncertain for plans,
And futures have a way of falling down in midflight.
And after a while, you learn
That even sunshine burns if you get too much.
So you plant your own garden and decorate your own soul,
Instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.
And you learn that you really can endure.
That you really are strong
And you really do have worth
And you learn and learn…
With every goodbye, you learn.
~ Jorge Luis Borges
by Virginia Clark
on May 20, 2017
And How To Keep Your Sanity When He Won’t!
I hear a lot of complaints from frustrated women asking how to get a man to change. Even when they’re in an established relationship they still want know what they can do to get what they want.
Their complaints are different but they all revolve around men who don’t do what’s asked of them — either because they don’t want to or they can’t.
Here are some common examples:
“Why won’t Rob stop texting and call me more? I’ve told him a hundred times I NEED to hear his voice but he either forgets or just doesn’t do it.”
“How do I get Dan to care about time? It doesn’t matter if it’s a movie, a doctor’s appointment or just lunch, he’s always late. I told him how important being on time is to me. Why won’t he do this one thing?”
“Martin promised to clean up after himself. It lasted a few days. He drops his clothes and towels on the floor and leaves a mess wherever he goes. He doesn’t even see it! I just can’t stand it any more.”
How do these women get a man to change?
All three have the same problem; they keep asking their men for something THEY’RE NOT GOING TO GET!
Why? Because each of these men KNOW what is wanted [continue reading…]
by Virginia Clark
on December 26, 2016
Unless we make room for love in our lives, which means making love a priority, it will stay a distant stranger.
I know this because I recently went through a period where I forgot about love and ended up with fear taking over my thinking.
When I realized how unhappy I was, and recognized I felt hopelessness when I should be feeling empowered, I knew something was wrong. Something was out of balance in my life but I didn’t know what.
We all have “down times.” And when we do we need to pay attention to what our feelings are telling us. For me, I became aware that something was invading my thoughts and making me doubt my life.
Where had my confidence and sense of myself gone? Why had my faith in the rightness of my life disappeared? What happened to my belief that everything was unfolding in the best way possible?
It turns out my faith in myself and the rightness of my life had been hijacked! I was invaded by an outside force, something that wasn’t an organic part of me or my thinking.
It had taken over and filled my space for love with self-recrimination and blame. What the hell was going on?
Then it hit me while walking the dog.
The Internet had invaded my life and infected my brain! I had let [continue reading…]
by Virginia Clark
on November 15, 2016
It’s not unusual to have negative thoughts about men, many women do. It’s one of the most prevalent ways to sabotage your relationships.
If you’ve been through a bad break-up, had a man cheat on you or lie about himself, you may have built up resentments about men that you’re not even be aware of. You may have absorbed judgments about men in your childhood as you listened to women around you complain about them, or you may have picked up reasons to bash men by watching TV and films.
Your thoughts about men will influence your relationships. If you harbor negative ones they will hurt your ability to build a close and intimate bond.
Do any of these “feel” familiar?
1. Men always leave.
2. Men can’t be faithful.
3. Men always lie.
4. Men just want sex.
The negative thoughts you tell yourself are destructive and they will create a barrier to love. You will find they get triggered when you hit a rough spot in your relationship or when a man disappoints you — like not calling when he says he will. Your negative thoughts will add to your upset and fuel the fire of your anger. You will push him away as you react with more drama than the situation calls for.
When you think these thoughts they become your beliefs, and beliefs are not facts. Your beliefs are based on your past experience and what you’ve been taught. They have nothing to do with [continue reading…]
Release what’s been standing in the way of finding your special someone.
